A Misconception

I have encountered this problem too many times and it is time to put it to rest.  The idea that only one person out of the billions on Earth is your potential spouse is ridiculous. It is not any less romantic because of this, but it is less dreamy I suppose. People have similarities and there are many different qualities that are likable by a number of different people.  The distinction is that once you have decided upon a spouse, that is the one and only person for you.  Your soul mate is the one who you are committed to, not whoever you like most right now. It is a slight distinction, but really important to remember.